Q. How can I forgive when there’s no apology?
A. Choose to forgive. Develop a forgiving heart. Then forgive as Jesus forgave you. He’ll enable you if you’re willing. Jer 33:1-9 Col 3:13. – Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye.
Forgiveness is not inherent in the nature of Man – until he receives the Lord’s forgiveness. Have you been forgiven? Act as an agent of Jesus’ forgiveness.
Allow Him to help you tear down walls of discord. Eph 2:14-18 Be happy to take the first step; Jesus did that for you!
Let God care for and heal your feelings. He really cares for you and will meet you at your point of need. 1 Pet 3:8-15